The Wedding Guest Dilemma - How to Look Stylish on a Budget

Who doesn’t love a good wedding? They are a huge part of the British summer culture. Whether you’re the bride or not, chances are if you’ve got the invite you’re already wondering what to wear.

Did you know the average cost of a wedding guest outfit comes in at a whopping £120 – and I’m sure most of us have spent much more. This need to have a brand new outfit for special occasions is just not justified!

It isn’t that you shouldn’t want to look your best, but you should spend accordingly. Most occasion wear outfits are worn only once, perhaps two or three times if you’re lucky.  I’ve seen it a million times when I go into clients’ wardrobes – they’ve got their beloved bold print Coast skirt hanging in a dust bag while they’re buying jeans from the supermarket.

Now wouldn’t it make sense to flip that on it’s head? I firmly believe in spending your money on the clothes you get the most wear of (resulting in a better cost-per-wear), and being frugal with those one hit wonders.

To help you out, I’ve pulled together a few different options for savvy wedding guest outfits. I wanted to keep this simple so I’ve chosen all items from three highstreet shops, that I regularly buy my clothes from – M&S, H&M and ASOS.

It’s important that these items don’t just hang in that dust bag in the not-so-accessible part of your wardrobe, so they are items that can be dressed up or down. And all clothing is under £40 (a few shoes are over, oops)!

 

The Capsule Collection

 

The summer I got married we attended NINE weddings. So on top of the most expensive day (err, weekend) of our lives and the ‘most important’ dress ever, I had to come up with eight other outfits. It was an expensive summer to say the least.

If I had known then what I know now, I’d have planned it much better and pulled together a small capsule wardrobe to mix and match.

If you’ve got five or more weddings this capsule will suit you perfectly.

Take three tops, two skirts and a pair of wide leg trousers. And here you get seven unique outfits. All items that can be worn for not-so-special occasions too. And the total for these SIX items is the same as the average spend on one outfit! 

 Strappy vest, H&M, £12.99

Strappy vest, H&M, £12.99

 Bardot top, H&M, £17.99

Bardot top, H&M, £17.99

 Navy cami, H&M, £17.99

Navy cami, H&M, £17.99

 Midi skirt, H&M, £39.99

Midi skirt, H&M, £39.99

 Wide leg trousers, M&S, £15

Wide leg trousers, M&S, £15

 Cargo skirt, H&M, £19.99

Cargo skirt, H&M, £19.99

I’ve added in shoes (see below) to suit but you could get away with a tan or nude strappy sandal with all the outfits.

 

The key here is choosing wisely. I’ve got one pop of colour (red) and two neutrals, navy and cream/white. This makes mixing and matching possibilities aplenty!

 

Dresses under £40


Another option (if you don’t want a lot of options) is the simple dress. Here are five of my favourites, all under £40...

 A simple stylish wrap dress. ASOS Design, £30

A simple stylish wrap dress. ASOS Design, £30

 Bright, bold and easy to accessorise. ASOS Design, £30 

Bright, bold and easy to accessorise. ASOS Design, £30 

 Make a sheer, scene-stealing statement. ASOS, £38

Make a sheer, scene-stealing statement. ASOS, £38

 Perfect for a garden party. Boohoo, £40

Perfect for a garden party. Boohoo, £40

 Because you know I love leopard print! ASOS Design, £38

Because you know I love leopard print! ASOS Design, £38

 

Show-stopping shoes


Lastly, remember you don’t need to buy a whole new outfit! Pull out something you wore a few years ago and update it with new shoes and accessories. M&S are doing some amazing things in footwear at the moment. These are my most wearable picks…

 Make a statement with a bold colour. M&S, £19.50

Make a statement with a bold colour. M&S, £19.50

 The go-with-everything stiletto. M&S, £49.50

The go-with-everything stiletto. M&S, £49.50

 The stylish (and comfortable) sandal. M&S, £39.50

The stylish (and comfortable) sandal. M&S, £39.50

 The must-have mules. M&S, £35

The must-have mules. M&S, £35

 The fashionista's favourite. M&S, £35

The fashionista's favourite. M&S, £35

And don’t forget to accessorise. Again M&S are doing some amazing accessories at the moment - whether you want a bold statement necklace or simple gold hoops.

Have you got your wedding guest outfit sorted? If you need help building your very own capsule collection or want to find that show-stopper, get in touch

Spring Clean: How to Detox Your Wardrobe

Now that the daffodils have bloomed and the beast from the east (and its little brother) are behind us, who’s ready for spring? I SURE AM!

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Excited much, me? Yes, I love spring. The first few boring months of the year are just a warm up but spring is the real deal. Flowers, baby animals, and spring fashion, hallelujah!

And along with change of season comes the need for a good old fashioned spring clean. As I’m sure you’ll know, I’m all for a spring detox, in every sense.

As we’re moving house next month, I’ve got the just bin it bug and am weeding out what we actually need from all the crap we’ve been collecting. I’ve also finally found the motivation to get back in shape, so I’m going on a bit of a health detox too. And I’ve recently rediscovered my love of reading and learning so I think I’ll be going on a bit of a digital/telly detox and lose myself in a book more often. Does all this talk of detox sound exhausting? It probably will be! My trick is to start small and focus on one area at a time.

Fortunately for you, here’s where I can help. Your wardrobe is a perfect place to start. Just a few hours and you’ll feel truly cleansed. In my professional life as a stylist I have done dozens and dozens of closet clearings… and every single one has been a success.

So where to start? Here’s my top tips for your very own Wardrobe Detox and spring clean:
 

1. Give yourself a good chunk of time

I promise it will be worth it. A little sacrifice to start and you’ll save yourself loads of time in the long run. Set aside two to three hours one evening or weekend.

 

2. Call for back-up

Ask a friend or family member or even a pro like me (!!!) to come and help. Having someone watching over you will put a bit more pressure on you to make decisions. So things you might think I’ll just keep it for now, you’re more likely to toss, or at the very least give them some proper thought.

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3. Start with the things you’ve worn in the past 30 days

These will probably be your favourite items that fit you well. You can keep them all, unless they have holes or stains of course. Pull them out and set them on your bed or a portable rail so you can see what you’re left with.

 

4. Now get on with everything else

Go through one by one and put things in piles – keep, alter, donate, bin and if you need it, maybe. Try on all the maybes.

If you aren’t sure, pop the hanger in your closet backwards and try to wear it ASAP. If you do, turn the hanger around and keep it. If you don’t turn it over in six months – see ya later!

 

5. Don’t be precious

No matter how much something cost or how many times you’ve (not) worn it, if it doesn’t fit you or make you happy when you put it on GET RID OF IT.

 

6. Recycle, up-cycle, donate

There are so many ways to get rid of clothes nowadays. Obviously you can give them to the local charity shop. For higher priced items in good nick, try selling them at a local dress agency or on eBay (still the best in my opinion). For designer bits, check out some of the online selling platforms. There’s also loads of clothes swaps and second hand sales popping up. Or give them to an appreciative friend! I’ll pop some links for ideas below.

 

7. Reorganise

Now that you’ve streamlined what’s hanging in your closet, make some sense out of it. I like to colour code my closet. Some people like to keep certain items in a category together. Do whatever works for you.

Stylist tip: Don’t hang things that ‘go together’ together. This makes for lazy dressing and uninspired outfits. Take belts off of garments they came with. Give everything it’s own space.

 

8. Hang it!

Now that you’ve got less make sure you can see what you do have. Every item NEEDS its own hanger. I love the flocket / velvet non-slip ones which are available from Primark and TK Maxx for cheap.

All tops and dresses should be hung; trousers and skirts too if you have the space. Knitwear and jeans can be folded.

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FINALLY…

Take some time to try putting new outfits together. Take pictures to remember them. Get creative and have fun!

 

Some of my favourite dress agencies…

Brockhurst Boutique (Chesham, Bucks)

Lanes Dress Agency (Epping)

The Shiny City of Wardrobe (Hitchin, Herts)


Resale events…

Fashion Re:Boot (multiple locations)

Rockup Frockup (Herts & London)
 

Resale sites…

Cudoni (designer goods, London – contact me first as I have a direct contact!)

Vesitaire Collective (designer)

eBay

Shpock

Depop

Let me know if you know others to add to the list! 

If you need any help detoxing your own wardrobe, just get in touch! Here’s a run-down of the full service I offer. If you’re not convinced head over to my testimonials to hear about some of my results!

Style How To... Wear Trainers

Now that you’ve been inspired and found your favourite pair of kicks, how do you actually wear them? Maybe that’s a silly question but I want to be sure that your trainers are reaching their FULL potential and properly earning their place in your wardrobe.

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1) Keep it classic with a t-shirt and jeans

But add an edge, obviously. My favourite jeans with trainers are ankle grazers. This will help avoid the awkward bunched up hem you often get, plus they show off those sexy ankles.

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If you’ve got a thicker ankle, there’s no need to hide it, just choose a shoe with a chunky sole to add balance.

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Or for a different look - try trousers! 

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2) With a dress

Now this is probably a bit controversial to some of you, but why not give it a try. It will give those dresses in your wardrobe a new lease of life!

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I’m a firm believer in wearing what you own and not saving anything ‘for best’. So this is a perfect way to dress down that maxi you bought last summer. Or wear with a skater dress for a girl about town style.

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3) Skirt and jumper

Another style that might be slightly out of your comfort zone but once you’ve embraced it, there’s no turning back.

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This is my style du jour for meetings and maintaining comfort whilst also looking somewhat considered and fashionable.

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I’ve found recently a lot of my clients don’t own many skirts – if this is you, you can get the same look by throwing a jumper over a dress.

 

4) Just add colour, texture, fabulousness

If you’re stuck wearing the same old ‘uniform’ every day, like jeans and a jumper, trainers are a great way to add interest to your outfit with no extra effort.

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My favourite trainers ‘of interest’ are my Leopard-print Copelands by Air & Grace. They instantly make the most basic of outfits look more stylish and I receive so many compliments when I wear them.

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5) Dress down your best Items of clothing  

I already touched on this by pairing trainers with a dress, but you don’t need to stop there! Take anything you own that might be considered a bit ‘too much’ for day time, add trainers et voila – you’ve got a new look!

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Black trainers look amazing with leather (faux or real) leggings and a chunky trainer with a wide legged trouser is top trend for 2018. Want to get more out of that sequin skirt or dress you bought for the holiday party four years ago? Just add trainers. 

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STYLIST TIP:

You can wear a simple t-shirt or jumper, your favourite jeans, trainers and then top it off with the coat. This also works with dresses, skirts, leather leggings, etc, you get the picture. It will instantly up the fashion factor to ANY outfit.

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Just make sure the hem length is different between the two in order to create length and elongate your silhouette. 

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My only trainer NO-NO: trainers with tights

… it just doesn’t work. The eye is drawn to the shoe and legs look weird. 

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If you absolutely must, then choose a tight with a low opacity - avoid think black tights at all costs. 

The ONLY exception is if you have simple streamlined black trainers with tights. It just about works for a sport luxe feel. But anything lighter in colour or that stands out will just make your silhouette look rather odd!

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How do you style your trainers? I'd love to see! Feel free to tag me @lololovettstyle on Instagram .

Want more inspiration? Check out my Trainer Style board on Pinterest ❤︎

Say no to UGGs

Hello Autumn! This is one season I always welcome with open arms. I love everything about it – the crisp cool weather, pumpkin spice lattes, the changing of the leaves. And let’s not forget fall fashion. I dream of cashmere jumpers, big wooly scarves and fur-lined boots.

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It brings me such joy when the temperatures drop and it’s time to break out the boots. But please, whatever you do, do not reach for the UGGs. It seems everyone owns them despite knowing they shouldn’t.

I’m not hating on the brand as a whole, just the classic style that takes your legs from fab to stunted tree stumps in mere seconds. It doesn’t matter if they are just for the school run or around the house. If a shoe can make Kate Moss look dumpy, what hope is there for the rest of us?

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You can be comfortable without having to commit one of fashion’s biggest faux pas. Here are my top picks for keeping comfortable without sacrificing your style.

These Seven Boot Lane Kylie boots are my top pick. I actually bought these and it broke my heart to return them, but they made my feet look really big. Note: my feet ARE really big, I wear a UK size 8. So I’d say these are perfect for those a size 6 and under, sadly. Plus Seven Boot Lane have very kindly given me a special discount offer to share – enter LOLO15 at checkout and you’ll get 15% off (you can use it on ANY new season style until 29/10/17)!

 Kylie boots, £160.  Shop Seven Boot Lane  - don't forget discount LOLO15 to save 15% 

Kylie boots, £160. Shop Seven Boot Lane - don't forget discount LOLO15 to save 15% 

If you’re a converse girl, then these Chuck Taylor high tops are perfect. They are classically cool and will never go out of style. They come in grey too!

 Converse Chuck Taylor high tops, ASOS, £70

Converse Chuck Taylor high tops, ASOS, £70

These are the only actual UGGs on my list. They have all the cosiness with none of the ugliness! Super cute and versatile – they are on my wish list after having to return the Kylies.

For a more traditional boot style these Boden beauties tick all the boxes. They come in three different colours but my fave is the grey with a contrasting yellow zip pull. The sheepskin lining looks oh so soft!

The bargain beauties are from Tesco and a mere £28! They come in brown and black and are water resistant.

If you’re usually just housebound in your UGGs, these slippers are a great alternative. They actually looking very similar to the branded version but are much more affordable! I’m actually on my own second pair after I wore out the first – they are sooo comfy!

What do you think, will you swap your UGGs for something more stylish this season? Or can you not live without them? 

Don't forget you can save 15% off ANY pair of shoes or boots at Seven Boot Lane by clicking the link and entering LOLO15 at check out until 29/10/17. I'm tempted to order another pair myself! 

RED-y for Autumn

If you’ve been over to my Instagram lately, you’ll have noticed I have a penchant for red. Heck if you’ve been on any style blog, Instamum page or opened a fashion magazine in the past couple of months you’ll probably already know that red is THE colour to be seen in this season.

I’ve got a slight theory why red is so big this season and it’s similar to the ‘Lipstick Effect’. Basically put, when times are tough, we search for small ways to brighten them up. Roll in shades of fire engine red, juicy orange and even vibrant mustard.

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It’s a defense mechanism to keep things rosy whilst we pray that Donald Trump and Kim Jong-un call a truce, house prices stop rising and flexible working finally becomes the norm.  Because while we can’t change the world overnight, we certainly can change our attitude and outlook. And it’s a proven fact (according to Vogue!) that wearing bright colours can brighten your mood.

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Here are three of the boldest and the brightest jumpers on the high street. Red because we all know Mondays can be hard work; jumpers because well it’s Monday and we all still want to be cosied up in our duvets. These are the next best thing.

Marks & Spencer, £35. I own this one - and I love it! 

& Other Stories, £35. I own this one too (noticing a trend?!) - it's the one I'm wearing in the image at the post of this post. 

& Other Stories, £79. I don't own this one, but I want to. The price puts me off slightly when I have the M&S one which is similar but it is lovely if you're looking for a classic! 

If those don't take your fancy fear not, I've compiled a Pinterest board of many more luscious red jumpers. You'll be sure to find your perfect match. 

 

Lolo’s tips for adding edge to your red jumper:

1) Pair with patterns – my favourite is leopard print!

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2) Go tonal and wear with shades of burgundy. Perfect for those with warm skin tones.

3) Add a statement earring for an instant updater.

4) Red looks great with this season’s heritage tweeds and checks.

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5) And finally, there IS a shade of red to suit everyone, I promise! If you’re a cool skin tone, go for a blue red; warm skin tones should go for orangey reds.